parents & families

Finding out that your beloved child is lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or queer can be challenging. You may experience many emotions, have lots of worries and concerns, and might find yourself asking lots of questions. 

If you're a parent who identifies as LGBTQ and living in Singapore, know that you are not alone.

 

LOCAL COMMUNITY RESOURCES

The following local community resources may be useful if your child identifies as LGBTQ, or you are a parent who identifies as LGBTQ. 

SAFE Singapore (Supporting, Affirming & Empowering our LGBTQ family and friends) Support group for parents, families and friends of LGBTQ persons, who believe in a society that accepts, affirms and empowers everyone to participate fully in it, regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation.

Rainbow Parents SG   Informal social group of LGBTQ parents living in Singapore with their children. 

Same But Different: A Legal Guidebook for LGBT Couples and Families in Singapore    Volunteer-run non-profit project to bring easily understandable, sustained, free legal advice on some issues faced by LGBT couples & families in Singapore.

 

RESOURCES IN SINGAPORE'S OTHER OFFICIAL LANGUAGES

当你第一次了解到子女是 同性恋或双性恋时怎么办? (Mandarin) 

家依旧 . . . . 爱依然 . . . .  (Mandarin)

認識同志 (Mandarin)

Keluarga tetap Keluarga, Cinta tetap Cinta (Malay)

குடும்பம் என்றால் இப்போதும் குடும்பம்தான். . . . அன்பு என்றால் இதுவும் அன்புதான். . . .  (Tamil)

 

BOOK RESOURCES

SQ21: Singapore Queers in the 21st century  Anthology of coming out stories, including from Dr Khoo Hoon Eng and her 2 gay sons. 

Always My Child: A Parent's Guide to Understanding Your LGBTQ Son or Daughter

Coming Out, Coming Home: Helping Families Adjust to a Gay or Lesbian Child

Families Like Mine: Children of Gay Parents Tell It Like It Is

PFLAG Publications  From the largest family and ally organisation in the USA

 

ONLINE BLOGS

The Chiongs  A blog about same-sex parenting, relationships & life hacking in between Singapore and Seattle

4 Relative Strangers  Blog based on the lives of a gay family formed through adoption

 

LOCAL VIDEO RESOURCES

Singaporean mother tells us what it's like to have two gay sons and offers some valuable advice to other parents of LGBT children.

Singaporean mother talks about her journey towards accepting her lesbian daughter.

Singaporean father and mother talk about the journey with their transgender child.

AJ thought telling his mother he was gay was difficult, until he had to break the news of something even more life-changing.

INTERNATIONAL ORGANISATIONS

The following is a selection of support groups for parents of LGBT+ children in neighbouring Asian countries. 

South-East Asia:

PFLAG-Myanmar-LGBTIQAs SOS Hotline  

PFLAG Vietnam

សហគមន៍ឥន្ទធនូកម្ពុជា Rainbow Community Kampuchea-RoCK  (Cambodia)

East Asia:

同性恋亲友会 PFLAG China  

台灣同志諮詢熱線 Taiwan Tongzhi Hotline Association

香港小童群益會 性向無限計劃 BGCA Project Touch (Hong Kong)

성소수자 부모모임 - PFLAG Korea 

South Asia:

Sweekar - The Rainbow Parents (India)

 

INTERNATIONAL VIDEO RESOURCES